BEFORE YOUR WEDDING
Before we get to the shot list & timeline, a note on engagement sessions and why they matter for your wedding day →
Before the wedding day arrives, your engagement session is where we begin. It’s more than a save-the-date photo — it’s a chance for us to slow down, get to know each other, and create images that feel natural and deeply you. This session helps you grow comfortable in front of the camera, discover how you naturally move together, and set the tone for the way your love will be documented on your wedding day.
Engagement sessions can reflect your story in meaningful ways — whether that’s wandering through a favorite trail, visiting the coffee shop where you had your first date, dressing up for a downtown evening, or keeping it simple at home. I’ll guide you with prompts and direction, but the heart of it will always be your connection. These images become part of your wedding story, and they help ensure that when the big day comes, you feel relaxed, confident, and fully present.
Your Wedding Shotlist & Timeline Guide
DETAILS
Capturing the aesthetic that defines your day
takes 45 minutes
- Venue: Exterior and interior highlights, natural surroundings, architectural charm
- Flat Lays: Rings, invitations, vow books, florals, perfume, shoes, tie, jewelry
- Bridal Attire: Dress on display, detail shots, textures and fabrics
- Bridal Party Attire: Dresses and suits arranged or styled for detail shots
- Tables & Decor: Centerpieces, place settings, signage, lighting, florals
- Schedule or Signage: Any signage for the day's timeline or events
GETTING READY
Capturing the build-up, emotions, and quiet anticipation
takes up to 2-3 hours
Bride & Bridesmaids
takes 45-120 minutes
- Shared moments: prayers, gifts, laughs, or drinks together
- Hair & Makeup: Artistic shots during final touches
- Accessories: Putting on shoes, earrings, veil
- Dress Reveal: Mom helping zip, bridesmaids’ reactions
Groom & Groomsmen
takes up to 45 minutes to get ready
- Group time: Hanging out, playing games, shared traditions
- Getting dressed: Ties, cufflinks, cologne, jackets
- Accessories: Watch, socks, boutonnieres
FIRST LOOK & PRIVATE MOMENTS
Intimate moments just before “I do”
takes 5-15 minutes, each
- With Parents or Grandparents
- With Bridesmaids or Groomsmen
- With Each Other (if doing a first look)
- Private vow reading (if applicable)
BRIDAL PARTY
Classic and candid moments with your closest people
up to 40 minutes pending the size of your party
Bride’s Side
- Solo bride portraits
- Bride with maid of honor
- Bride with each bridesmaid
- Full group of bridesmaids
Groom’s Side
- Solo groom portraits
- Groom with best man
- Groom with each groomsman
- Full group of groomsmen
Group Shots
- Full bridal party posed
- Playful “tunnel” run
- Everyone surrounding the couple
- Flower girl and ring bearer (if applicable)
- Tossing groom or lift-the-bride moments (optional/fun)
FAMILY FORMALS
Organized groupings for lasting legacy shots
(Can be customized to fit your unique family structure)
up to 30 minutes, can be longer with large families
Bride’s Family
- Bride with mom, dad, both parents
- Bride with siblings (solo & group)
- Extended family: Grandparents, in-laws, siblings' families
Groom’s Family
- Groom with mom, dad, both parents
- Groom with siblings (solo & group)
- Extended family: Grandparents, in-laws, siblings' families
Together
- Couple with both sets of parents
- Couple with both extended families
COUPLE PORTRAITS
Sweet, romantic, and editorial moments of just the two of you
I ALWAYS ADVOCATE FOR THE MOST TIME FOR THESE, can take 30-45 minutes (or more if you want lots of photos of you both, break them up into different aspects of your day too)
Classic poses
Candid moments
Fun & flirty shots
Close-up details: rings, touch, smiles
CEREMONY
All the moments that matter—start to finish
unplugged, 30 minutes - traditional, 90 minutes
Guest arrival & ambiance
Wedding party walking in
Groom’s reaction
Bride walking down the aisle
Special rituals: candle lighting, communion, etc.
The vows
First kiss
Celebration walk back down the aisle
DINNER/Cocktail Hour
(Usually lightly documented unless specified, a great time to do a couple extra couples photos)
up to 45-100 minutes
Special moments like toasts, first bites, or unique details
RECEPTION
The celebration in full swing
varies from 3-5 hours
Grand entrance & couples first dance (15 min)
First dances (father/daughter, mother/son) (10-15 min)
Speeches & toasts (20-30 min)
Dancing & candid moments (60-120 min)
Cake cutting (10 min)
Special surprises (games, traditions, etc.) (15-45 min)
SEND-OFF
Your grand farewell
takes 15 minutes
Exit moments: sparklers, confetti, petals, tunnel, etc.
Decorated vehicle or getaway moment
Final details: half-eaten cake, scattered florals, empty chairs—a poetic close
Something missing? A tradition, a person, a moment that matters? Send me a message — I want to know. → contact me!
A Few Things I've Learned After Photographing Dozens of Weddings:
Build in buffer time. Something will run late — hair, a missing boutonniere, a family member who can't be found. Plan for it. A 15-minute buffer between each major block can save your entire timeline.
Protect your golden hour. The 30–45 minutes before sunset are the most beautiful light of the day. Whatever you do, keep that window free for couple portraits. It's worth rearranging everything else around it.
Front-load your portraits if possible. A first look before the ceremony means you can knock out most of your wedding party and couple photos before you say "I do" — leaving cocktail hour free to actually enjoy together.
Family formals have one job: move fast. Send your photographer a shot list in advance and assign a family member to be the "caller" who rounds people up. Every minute saved here is a minute added to your portraits, down time or dancing.
Speeches always run long. Always. If you have four people toasting, plan for 30–40 minutes minimum. Brief your speakers lovingly in advance.
Don't schedule your send-off at the very end. You'll be exhausted, your guests will be thinning out, and the energy won't match the moment. Plan it 30–45 minutes before your coverage ends while everyone still has life in them. Some couples do a mid-evening send-off and then return inside to keep dancing — best of both worlds. (& lots of people start dwindling away after the first 20-30 minutes of the dancing)
Dinner can take longer than you think — and that's okay. How your meal is served matters more than most couples realize. Buffet style averages 2–3 minutes per person through the line — for 100 guests, that's nearly an hour before anyone starts eating. Plated service is faster at 30–45 minutes to serve the room, but depends on your caterer's staffing. Food stations are the most relaxed — guests move at their own pace and the energy stays social.
Regardless of style, budget 90 minutes for dinner. If you're doing a buffet, ask your caterer for two lines — it cuts wait time nearly in half. And seat your head table last so you're eating with your guests, not sitting alone while everyone queues.
Your timeline is a guide, not a contract. The best moments of your wedding day will be unplanned. Leave enough white space that you can actually feel it all happening.
Timeline Guide & Examples
TIMELINE A —
6 Hour Coverage | With First Look
Best for: Intimate weddings, elopements, or smaller celebrations
12:00 PM Photographer arrives — detail shots & flat lays
12:30 PM Bride getting ready coverage
1:15 PM Groom getting ready coverage
1:45 PM First look
2:00 PM Couple portraits
2:30 PM Wedding party photos
3:00 PM Guest arrival — photographer captures candids
3:30 PM Ceremony begins
4:00 PM Ceremony ends — family formals
4:30 PM Golden hour couple portraits
5:00 PM Cocktail hour candids
5:30 PM Grand entrance & first dance
5:45 PM Toasts
6:00 PM Photographer coverage ends
Buffer tip: Ceremony start times almost always run 10–15 minutes late. Build it in.
TIMELINE B —
8 Hour Coverage | Without First Look
Best for: Traditional ceremonies, couples who want the aisle reveal
12:00 PM Photographer arrives — detail shots & flat lays
12:30 PM Bride getting ready coverage
1:30 PM Groom getting ready coverage
2:00 PM Wedding party photos (separately — no couple together yet)
2:45 PM Guest arrival — photographer captures candids
3:00 PM Ceremony begins
3:45 PM Ceremony ends
4:00 PM Family formals
4:45 PM Couple portraits
5:15 PM Golden hour portraits (protect this window, time changes pending season)
5:45 PM Cocktail hour candids
6:15 PM Grand entrance & first dance
6:30 PM Parent dances
6:45 PM Toasts
7:00 PM Dinner
7:45 PM Cake cutting
8:00 PM Photographer coverage ends
Buffer tip: Without a first look, post-ceremony portrait time gets compressed. Keep family formals to 30 min max with a shot list.
TIMELINE C —
10+ Hour Coverage | With First Look
Best for: Full wedding days, large guest counts, multiple locations
10:00 AM Photographer arrives — detail shots & flat lays
10:30 AM Bride getting ready coverage
11:30 AM Groom getting ready coverage
12:00 PM First look
12:15 PM Couple portraits
12:45 PM Wedding party photos
1:30 PM Family formals
2:15 PM Lunch break (photographer)
2:45 PM Guest arrival — photographer captures candids
3:00 PM Ceremony begins
3:45 PM Ceremony ends
4:00 PM Additional family formals if needed
4:30 PM Cocktail hour — candids & details
5:15 PM Golden hour couple portraits (non-negotiable, time changes pending season)
5:45 PM Grand entrance & first dance
6:00 PM Parent dances
6:15 PM Toasts
6:45 PM Dinner
8:00 PM Cake cutting
8:15 PM Open dancing
9:00 PM "Send-off" (while energy is still high & people are present)
9:15 PM Open dancing resumes
10:00 PM Photographer coverage ends
Buffer tip: With 10+ hours you have breathing room — use it. Don't rush transitions just because you can.